Welcome! Ever said, “I didn’t sign up for this!” or “I can’t do this anymore!”? Want real help and real hope for your real-life relationship?  You’ve come to the right place!

Struggling in your marriage?
Leave your unhappiness behind instead of your spouse.

I’ll help you find your next step on your journey out of unhappiness.

My husband Carey and I know what it’s like to go through tough seasons in marriage.  But now, years later, our marriage is thriving. As a former divorce attorney, I’ve walked with people through the journey of separating. I promise there are steps you can take even today to start moving away from frustration and toward your better future.

Smart Family Podcast

Love being home!
Dr. Rob Meeder and I offer you high quality, practical advice to help you strengthen your relationship and boost your parenting to the next level. Join us for easy-to-apply expert guidance on family life.

New Book: Before You Split

Could a book really help you leave your unhappiness instead of your spouse? “Yes!”, say our early readers. Toni's book, Before You Split: Find What You Really Want for the Future of Your Marriage is available now on Amazon!

Subscribe to get access to a free video and Part 1 of the workbook from the series, Six Things Unhappy Couples Say and What to Do About Them, plus other practical tips and tricks to help you love being home.