Create a marriage you'd never dream of leaving

Welcome! I’m here to help you see the options for the future of your marriage more clearly. Discover your next best step.

Create a marriage you'd never dream of leaving

Welcome! I’m here to help you see the options for the future of your marriage more clearly. Discover your next best step.

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“...a must read for everyone in a lifelong relationship"

- Danielle Strickland

Could a book really help you build a stronger marriage or leave your unhappiness instead of your spouse? “Yes!”, say Before You Split readers.

I’ve lived through what it takes to re-build a marriage, and as a divorce attorney I’ve seen up close what leaving looks like on the other side. Combining my experience with the advice of experts, I’ll help you find your next step toward what you really want for the future of your marriage…

…and once you’ve read it, please tell me what you discovered.

“Toni Nieuwhof offers us truth that is both practical and profound…It’s authentic, practical, applicable and useful for every couple who wants to live their best life together. I’m so grateful Toni has chosen vulnerability and honesty as weapons of hope. Her words fight back against the despair of distance that threatens all relationships.  This book is a must-read for everyone in a lifelong relationship!”

Danielle Strickland

Now booking virtual and in-person events

Toni loves to ignite and participate in meaningful conversations.  Conversations that count and make a real difference.  Conversations about:

  • What it takes to transform a marriage, or build a stronger one;
  • Personal growth;
  • The intersection of professional and family life; and
  • How faith builds unity in marriage, family and community.
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The Smart Family Podcast

Dr. Rob Meeder and Toni offer you high quality, practical advice to build your relationship as a couple and boost your parenting to the next level. You’ll find practical, cutting-edge expert guidance on all things family life.

Why join us?  We’re here to help you love being home!

The Smart Family Podcast

Dr. Rob Meeder and Toni offer you high quality, practical advice to build your relationship as a couple and boost your parenting to the next level. You’ll find practical, cutting-edge expert guidance on all things family life.

Why join us?  We’re here to help you love being home!

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Toni is passionate about her mission to help people love being home.

She’s a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast.

She has been married to leadership expert, author, speaker and former pastor Carey Nieuwhof for over 31 years.

Toni has served the sick and vulnerable over the years by combining her professional acumen as pharmacist and lawyer in various roles in hospitals and other organizations. She has spent decades serving the community through the church Carey and Toni founded, and has been a mentor to many.

Her heart is full when she spends time outdoors with Carey, their two sons and anyone who is drawn to the aroma of their backyard BBQ.

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