Before You Split

Find what you really want for the future of your marriage.

If you've ever said, "I can't do this anymore!" about your marriage, you're definitely not alone.

Whether you're wondering about the options for the future of your marriage, or you simply want your good relationship to be even better, readers are telling us that the advice in this book works.

Before You Split  will help you find your next step toward:

  • seeing you, your spouse and your relationship more clearly;
  • better handling of difficult emotions;
  • dealing with clashing expectations;
  • engaging the power of forgiveness;
  • strengthening your peacemaking skills; and
  • advancing your journey of personal growth.

Let Toni's wisdom and experience guide you toward the relationship you did sign up for. Find what you really want for the future of your marriage. Order her new book,  Before You Split, today!

What others are saying about Before You Split

Mark Batterson

“If you’re stuck in your marriage or know someone who is, Before You Split is the practical help you’re looking for. Toni Nieuwhof is not only someone we trust personally, but she’s also a voice that needs to be heard when more couples than ever find themselves struggling in ways they never expected.”

Mark Batterson, New York Times bestselling author of The Circle Maker and lead pastor of National Community Church


“Toni Nieuwhof is the guide you’ve been waiting for. Deeply wise, genuinely empathetic, and uncommonly insightful, Toni is a fresh voice with tried and true experience that offers a proven roadmap. Before you even think about splitting—split this book open and find the hope you’ve been looking for.”

Ann Voskamp, New York Times bestselling author of The Broken Way and One Thousand Gifts

Sam Collier

“Toni Nieuwhof is a quiet storm—a brilliant mix of intellect, compassion, and revolution. Her new book is sure to revolutionize your marriage.”

Sam Collier, international speaker and author of A Greater Story

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About Toni

Toni Nieuwhof is an author, speaker and family law mediator, and has spent decades of her professional life practicing law and combining her professional careers of pharmacist and lawyer in leadership roles for hospitals.

Her most challenging work as a lawyer involved advising and representing people going through the journey of divorce. In her roles as mediator and lawyer, she is a steadfast voice for the well-being of the children involved.

Toni also co-founded and co-hosts the Smart Family Podcast to help p eople love being home.

Toni's book entitled Before You Split: Find What You Really Want for the Future of Your Marriage released January 12, 2021.

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